"16 of the 18"©
C.S.Davis
Hello, readers! Welcome to our next class along the way to Educated Leadership: Resonant Leadership – Leading Change. This course will help us to develop and understand the ways we can inspire others as we grow our understanding of emotional intelligence and solidifying our own beliefs and principles.
This week we were asked to describe two people with whom we had interacted in the past. One was to be a person we felt was an exceptional leader. The other was to be a person who we felt was a poor leader. We were asked to put the name of each person at the top left and right, respectively, of a sheet of paper. Beneath each person’s name we were to list the way each leader made us feel and then to list some of the things they said that enhanced the emotions we felt.
The leader I picked to represent a leader of substance was an executive that oversaw all flight test programs at Boeing some years ago. He had been a fighter pilot and test pilot in the military and graduated from the USAFA. His style was very laid back. He was the definition of confident. When he spoke, it was never in a loud tone. Yet, there was an underlying feeling of confidence and a touch of “what could be” that seemed ever-present. One of the characteristics of his that I admired most was that he was a good listener. Against the consensus of his peers, he spent quite a bit of budget on educating all the employees of his division about systems thinking and the ways the actions of an individual can impact an entire program. His communication was clear and consistent. He started a blog and invited anyone to write and ask questions. He didn’t threaten or even really urge. He presented the situation as he saw it and asked for help in ensuring Boeing Flight Test succeeded in its future missions. We had an unprecedented amount of work looming ahead and we were going to have to do things differently to get it accomplished. Under this leader’s name, I wrote that he made his team feel excited, empowered, educated, like they were ‘in the know’ and, practically visionary themselves. He used the terms “we”, “together”, “future”, and “success”. I remember him saying, “You can’t MAKE anyone do anything. You can, however, present them with the situation and give them tools. That’s how a leader gets things done.” I knew he was a person for whom I could work and that I would seek out if he changed jobs. I stayed in touch with him until he retired. I was very sad to see him go. He led us through a critical part of our company’s history and gave many people opportunities they may not have had otherwise.
The other leader I nominated was a direct supervisor of mine for the better part of five years. She had been a test pilot and was moved into executive leadership with very little background as a supervisor or leader of a group larger than three or four people. Her training was in engineering and in flight test programs. She came into our group during a time of high stress due to several new aircraft types being introduced into service. Initially, she listened intently and considered the impact of her decisions on her team and others. However, within twelve months, she had stopped listening to her lieutenants and made decisions on her own. She also became more and more of a micromanager. No one who worked for her could make a decision without her approval. The feelings that I had regularly while working for her were those of being held back, on edge, misled, and at times I even felt distraught and embarrassed. Early on, the embarrassment was mostly for her and some of the ways she handled situations. Later, I was just embarrassed to be associated with her. The times I was distraught were when she would make decisions that had the effect of countering the actions of her lieutenants without understanding the situation or repercussions. Time and again, she would make decisions that would undermine any leadership power her direct reports may have had with their employees. By the end of her tenure as an executive, much of her team would not make a decision about anything, leaving it all up to her. The rest of her leadership team simply quit following her and found other ways to get things done while they searched for other jobs. I recall her using the pronouns “me, “I”, and “my” almost exclusively. I remember one time she had one of her direct reports write down all the times she turned the topic back on herself and the number of times she used the aforementioned pronouns for one meeting. He filled a notebook page with notes. When he handed it to her, she glanced at it and threw it in the trash. He was never asked to do that again and she didn’t change her meeting style.
The author of our textbook for this class, Dr. Richard Boyatzis, noted in the video (Case Western Reserve, unknown) we watched for this assignment that part of the lesson is the fact we all know good leadership when we see it. The exercise was to provide a point of proof to support that assertion. I agree with Dr. Boyaztis. We know it when we see it. We all wish we could stick with those leaders. Here’s the twist: We are now being looked to by our followers to provide them the kind of leadership they want to follow. As we continue through the next nine weeks, we’ll hone our leadership skills further and work on maximizing the way we can open the supply of energy and enthusiasm for which our followers thirst! It’s going to be great!
See you next week!
Boyatzis, R., & McKee, A. (2005). Resonant Leadership. Boston, MA: Harvard Business School Press.
University, C. W. R. (Producer). (unknown). What is Leadership? with Dr. Richard Boyatzis. [Online lecture] Retrieved from https://erau.instructure.com/courses/61334/assignments/997512